A Note on This Collection:
The resources below are ones that Ben and I have found the most helpful in educating ourselves around adoption issues. We will keep adding to this list.
Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge
This book is full of insight from adoptees and is a good introduction to some of the challenges and blessings of adoption.
This collection of many adoptee interviews represents a variety of adoption experiences. Insightful and important.
Adoption is a Family Affair: What Relatives and Friends Must Know by Patricia Irwin Johnston
This short book outlines the adoption process simply. A good introduction, especially for those who wish to understand the adoption process and support others who adopt.
This short book is a gift. It is full of research and adoptee voices. It is clear and offers both information for prospective adoptive parents to seriously consider and also action steps for adoptive parents as they seek to parent their children well.
Honestly Adoption by Mike and Kristin Berry
In this book, the authors (who are the adoptive parents of eight children) talk openly about some of the challenges of engaging in adoption and foster care. They offer helpful advice in meeting each child where he or she I, and they also touch on parenting older children and working through having birth order shift in the family. It is an encouraging read and one I plan to return to as my children grow.
Mother to Son: Letters to a Black Boy on Identity and Hope by Jasmine L. Holmes
This book does not speak directly to adoption, but it is helpful especially for white adoptive parents to learn from Jasmine’s perspective on parenting black sons in America today.
Positive Adoptions Conversations from the editors of Adoptive Families magazine.
This book-length PDF published by AdoptiveFamilies.com is full of helpful information about adoption. It offers strategies for addressing adoption at each age level. It dispels myths and offers practical guides for reframing language around adoption in a way that is honest and honoring.
Read it here.